It's no secret that moms come in all shapes and sizes, yet it often seems like mother-of-the-bride (and groom) dresses are designed with a one-size-fits-all approach. Most options seem as if they were created to fit a shapeless body type, or they're so demure that they almost look matronly. To ensure the most important women in your life look and feel gorgeous on the big day, we rounded up some of our favorite mother-of-the-bride dresses that are both flattering and stylish.
The important thing to remember when choosing a mom-appropriate dress is to be playful with elements like color, silhouette, or pattern, rather than something like length. Necklines are another great fashion detail that moms can have some fun with. But just as you would for any other occasion, you'll want to avoid anything too showy—off-the-shoulder sleeves and deep V-necks are sexy and elegant, so long as they're not too revealing.
No matter what style direction you're leaning towards, there are plenty of mother-of-the-bride dress options out there that are far from matronly—here is a selection we love right now.
Banana Republic Pleated Midi Dress
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The mock neck and spaghetti tie belt add just the right amount of flare to this pleated midi dress. Mothers of the bride will love this frock, which also has a chic flare hem and slip lining.
Lulus Floral "Dressed Up" Black Floral Print Midi Dress
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For the mother of the bride who adores floral prints, this dress is for you. The free-flowing garment has a cream and black print with sheer decolletage, short sleeves, and a darted bodice for the perfect spring wedding attire.
Sachin & Babi "Stella Hammered" Satin Dress
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Looking for a simplistic option that still has "wow" factor? Consider this sleek strapless dress that has both "liquid shine" and a form-fitting silhouette.
Tadashi Shoji Off-the-Shoulder Floral Embroidered Dress
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This vintage-inspired A-line silhouette is giving us total Marvelous Mrs. Maisel vibes.
Eliza J Lace Bateau Neck Mermaid Gown
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We love a mother-of-the-bride dress in blush. This bateau neckline gown in delicate lace is both subdued and oh so pretty.
La Femme Ruched Twist Column Gown
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We'll never say no to flattering ruching! Add in a gorgeous gathered V-neck and sheer lace sleeves and this is a timeless mother-of-the-bride look.
Tadashi Shoji Embroidered-Bodice Crepe Gown
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Dramatic embroidery trailing down the side of the dress makes this dress an iconic look for a black-tie wedding.
See And Be Seen Sequin Tulip Long Sleeve Midi Dress
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We love the sequin embellishments all over this long-sleeve midi dress, which also features a V-neckline and tulip hem. Can't you see yourself in this while sipping Champagne at a New Year's Eve wedding?
Rickie Freeman for Teri Jon Two-Tone ¾-Sleeve Taffeta Shirtdress Gown
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We looked up timeless in the dictionary and this black and white dress was there. Sumptuous taffeta, a tailored shirtdress top, and a darling bow detail. It's perfection.
Aidan Mattox Geometric Beaded Column Gown
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A silver Art Deco column gown is an absolute showstopper and will look so chic next to a bride in a similarly embellished look.
Mac Duggal Beaded Feather A-Line Gown
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Beading is fabulous, but add in feathers and a sparkly belt, and this A-line gown is over the top in all the best ways.
Theia Three-Quarter Sleeve Sequin Sheath Gown
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Sparkling simplicity can be so glamorous. This sheath gown is covered head to toe in sequins, with elegant three-quarter sleeves and a gentle scoop in the back.
Rickie Freeman for Teri Jon Taffeta Laser Cut Shirtdress
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With the refinement of a formal shirtdress, but the playfulness of a daytime or warm weather wedding, this version is both flirty and fancy.
Pomander Palace Red Lennox Dress
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Feeling spicy but staying cozy? This red maxi dress in a comfortable knit fabric can be dressed up with jewels and fun shoes.
La Double J Magnifico Printed Silk-Twill Maxi Dress
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Both bold and billowing, this printed dress features a silk-twill silhouette with waterfall sleeves that's perfect to wear at a tropical big day.
Amsale Draped Satin One Shoulder Dress
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We're getting Oscars visions from this minimalist column dress. It's beautifully draped in a fluid silky fabric with an asymmetric off-the-shoulder neckline.
Adrianna Papell Embroidered Lace Gown
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As the grown up version of a slip dress, this moody floral is the most gorgeous take on a classic navy and light blue color palette. The lace gown has a curve-hugging silhouette and a grosgrain sash along the waist.
Adrianna Papell Beaded Sheath Dress
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This demure, sheath silhouette, covered in delicate crystal, sequins, and beading, is a lovely choice for a daytime ceremony and evening reception (truly, day to night!). The flutter sleeves add an exceptionally whimsical touch to the dress.
Mac Duggal Long-Sleeve Embellished Floral Midi-Dress
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This floral piece punctuated with dainty beadwork, is equal parts garden party and glamor. Throw on this pretty, flowy dress for an evening on the dance floor.
Rickie Freeman for Teri Jon Metallic Jacquard Off-The-Shoulder Dress
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A sophisticated off-the-shoulder neckline in a gorgeous shade is the ultimate look for a classic mother of the bride. The twist-accented front adds the finishing touch on this gown.
Aqua One Shoulder Ruffle Crepe Gown
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This sleeveless, one-shoulder silhouette is sure to make a statement. The stunning asymmetric neckline gets a ruffle overlay on the right shoulder to complete the look.
